Présentement ta maman est dans le creux de la vague....ton papa reste distant à tout cela (mais je le comprend...il ne veut pas s'attacher à toi de peur d'avoir mal)...et sincèrement....on va se croiser les doigts fort fort fort pour que l'agence termine ou continue ses ententes avec d'autres orphelinats que celui de la Croix-Rouge de Danang.
Pourquoi je dis cela? C'est simple, étant abonné à un forum dédié exclusivement à des gens adoptants, ayant adopté ou travaillant à cet orphelinat, nous avons eu des réponses à nos questions concernant la possibilité d'adopter une fillette entre 3 et 5 ans. Les réponses, qui ne sont pas nécessairement celle que l'on voulait, nous disent au moins, qu'à moins que l'agence s'ouvre à d'autres orphelinats ou que l'on change d'agence pour TDH, nos chances d'adopter une fillette de cette âge en provenance de la région de Danang(vietnam) sont quasiment nul.
Voici donc les extraits de réponses que nous avons reçu:
- I believe what the other person may have meant was that the olderchildren who seem to live there at the RC are physically and/ormentally handicapped. I was there last June/July 2006, and therewere 2-3 older children in the cribs, but were not out on the floorwith us playing with the babies. Their little faces were expression-less. Very sad to me. So yes, possibly you can check with your agency. I do know that thereis another orphanage near by in Hoi An with older children. I'm notsure what their ages are, or who might be available for adoption, butit is close by. Maybe your agency can check on that orphanage aswell?
- When we went in December, they only had a couple older kids, and they were not healthy. I'm not sure how many older kids they get. I don't know of many people that have adopted older kids from the RC in Danang.
- When we adopted our oldest 2 children, the RC orphanage had two sections - one for the babies and one for older children. Many of the older children were not orphans, they lived in the orphanage for the day or week while their parents worked. I don't know what it's like today, but I find it hard to believe the children are not healthy. Have you asked your agency for more information?
- We were there in December 2006. I only saw 2 older kids and the reason I say they were not healthy is that they were lying in a crib the whole time (though too big for it), chained by the ankle, and extremely thin. They didn't seem to play, or smile, or interact or talk. But, this was just 2 months after a typhoon hit the orphanage, so maybe the older kids had been moved to another location. The main building was not in use.
- I was also at RC last year - June/July 2006. Ibelieve those two older children may be mentallyand/or physically handicapped, but I'm not positive. There were no children over 2.5 yo then. So I don'tbelieve RC normally has toddlers, as those were theones remaining from the shut-down period. I believeby the normal "toddler" age, they are placed foradoption from RC. There is an orphanage in Hoi Anwith older children, but not sure how young thechildren may be there either.So in re-reading my mail, it sounds like I don'treally know, just wondering along with you. :)
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Bref, absolument rien d'encourageant face à la perspective d'adopter via cet orphelinat....
On commence à penser que l'on va faire levée de fond pour que nous et toutes la familles puissont aller chercher notre petite libellule via l'autre agence qui elle, travaille dans le secteur de Ho chi ming ville, là où des enfants plus âgés sont disponibles à l'adoption...
Rêvons...rêvons...!!!
En attendant de rêver, je vais retourner à ma comptabilité :( et on va garder espoir qu'au printemps 2008 on puisse signer avec l'agence où que l'adoption internationale s'ouvre un peu plus ....
Je pense fort fort fort à toi ma belle ....et on jour on sera réuni, tu verras!!
Ta maman qui te porte gros dans son coeur xxx
